It seems to me that one of the great hazards is quick love, which is actually charm. We get used to smiling, hugging, bantering, practicing good eye contact. And it's easier then true, slow, awkward and painful connection with someone who sees all the worst parts of you. Your act is easy. Being with you, deeply with, is difficult.Shauna Niequist
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The great danger in falling in love is the fact that while the other person may act like the perfect partner, you will begin to see their flaws. Once you get used to someone who acts like they are perfect, it becomes difficult to change their attitudes and behavior.
Source: Present Over Perfect: Leaving Behind Frantic For A Simpler, More Soulful Way Of Living
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