Sometimes a rut can be a comfortable place to be, but ours was full of too many differences and resentments to be wholly comfortable. I had always had my own way in the marriage – about what we’d do, where we’d do it, when, how. Katharine had always argued, and always given in. In the process she’d become more resentful, I guess, except that I was too busy with my own work to notice. But in turn she was less and less appealing to me. She’s a couple of years older than me, I guess you know that, but that wasn’t all. Those stolid American middle-class values, her sensible clothes, her sense of responsibility, her moderation in all things – frankly, they bored me. We made love less and less, and she didn’t even seem to miss it. I did. Shashi Tharoor
About This Quote

The quote above is about the author’s marriage to his second wife, Katharine Graham. They were married for 57 years before he passed away in 2001. However, for the first 23 years of his marriage to Katharine, they had a very different relationship than what was described in the quote. They were bored and distant until he left his first wife and moved in with Katharine. Once he settled into his new relationship with Katharine, they spent all their time together as a couple and as a family.

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