It is not your love that sustains the marriage, but from now on, the marriage that sustains your love.

Dietrich Bonhoeffer
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It is not your love that sustains the marriage,but from now on, the marriage that sustains your love. The essence of this quote is about strength in a relationship. The ability to get through the hard times with each other. It is not easy to love someone and still be allowed to be unhappy. The key to a loving relationship is the ability to understand and give what you need to those you care about so they can do the same thing for you.

Source: Letters And Papers From Prison

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