I was glad I wasn't in love, that I wasn't happy with the world. I like being at odds with everything. People in love often become edgy, dangerous. They lose their sense of perspective. They lose their sense of humor. They become nervous, psychotic bores. They even become killers.

Charles Bukowski
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Nelson Mandela said, “I was glad I wasn't in love, that I wasn't happy with the world. I like being at odds with everything. People in love often become edgy, dangerous. They lose their sense of perspective.

They lose their sense of humor. They become nervous, psychotic bores. They even become killers.” In this quote he describes how he feels when he is in love and when he is not in love.

He states that when you are in love you become so dependent on your partner that you can no longer be yourself. You start to lose your sense of humor and sense of perspective and you feel so much pressure to live up to your partners expectations that you can no longer be yourself.

Source: Women

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