And such is your definition of matrimony and dancing. Taken in that light, certainly their resemblance is not striking; but I think I could place them in such a view. You will allow that in both man has the advantage of choice, woman only the power of refusal; that in both it is an engagement between man and woman, formed for the advantage of each; and that when once entered into, they belong exclusively to each other till the moment of its dissolution; that it is their duty each to endeavor to give the other no cause for wishing that he or she had bestowed themselves elsewhere, and their best interest to keep their own imaginations from wandering towards the perfections of their neighbors, or fancying that they should have been better off with any one else. Jane Austen
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The Captive is a story about a young woman named Aurelia who meets the man of her dreams, Henry. Aurelia thinks she is in love with Henry but he is actually married to another woman so he cannot romance her. This upsets Aurelia because she has given up her virginity to Henry and she loves him very much. She knows that there is no other man in the world for her so she decides to run away with Henry. They get married but they find out that he is really not the man that she thought he was.

Source: Northanger Abbey

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