[A]fter all, what does it mean for pain to be 'memorable'? You're either in pain or you're not. And it isn't the pain that one forgets. It's the touching death part. As the baby might say to its mother, we might say to death: I forget you, but you remember me. Maggie Nelson
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The point of memory is to remember and share our experiences with others. But, the body has ways of remembering and telling its own story without language. We can touch and feel things we did or places we've been. When we die, we lose all our memories and all our ability to tell our own stories. We get an end like everyone else—fading away like a short-lived flame.

Source: The Argonauts

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