The sharp, superficial pain at being spoken to unkindly had obscured the deeper pain, which had not yet turned into something hard and heavy.

Olivia Sudjic
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The pain of hearing negative comments from someone was great. It hurt his feelings and made him feel bad. The greater pain was the knowledge that he knew he could do better. He knew he could be a better person and still be loved. The truth was that the one who hurt his feelings did not know him as well as he knew himself and deserved the criticism.

Source: Sympathy

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