Every widow wakes one morning, perhaps after years of pure and unwavering grieving, to realize she slept a good night's sleep, and will be able to eat breakfast, and doesn't hear her husband's ghost all the time, but only some of the time. Her grief is replaced with a useful sadness. Every parent who loses a child finds a way to laugh again. The timbre begins to fade. The edge dulls. The hurt lessens. Every love is carved from loss. Mine was. Yours is. Your great-great-great-grandchildren's will be. But we learn to live in that love. Jonathan Safran Foer
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Saying "the memory of this day will always be with me" is meaningless. It's empty and trite. The memory of today is not so much with you as it is within you. The memory of today is the love you feel for the person who is no longer with you.

Source: Everything Is Illuminated

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