If we wish to know about a man, we ask 'what is his story--his real, inmost story?'--for each of us is a biography, a story. Each of us is a singular narrative, which is constructed, continually, unconsciously, by, through, and in us--through our perceptions, our feelings, our thoughts, our actions; and, not least, our discourse, our spoken narrations. Biologically, physiologically, we are not so different from each other; historically, as narratives--we are each of us unique. Oliver Sacks
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This quote is an interesting way of saying that the true story of everyone is different. The fact that we are all so different means there is always more to learn about people. This is especially true when it comes to us, because our stories aren’t told the same way by everyone else. For example, think about how your friends tell their stories.

They may talk about you, but they also talk about themselves. These are two completely different stories that never overlap. On top of this, you are no longer the same person when you get older.

Your life experiences have shaped who you are today. But, even though our stories are unique, there is still more to learn about them, both individually and collectively.

Source: The Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat And Other Clinical Tales

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