.. on May 1, 1855, Lucy Stone and Henry Blackwell were married. Before the minister began the ceremony, Henry read the protest which he and Lucy had prepared: "While acknowledging our mutual affection by publicly assuming the relation of husband and wife, yet in justice to ourselves and a great principle, we deem it a duty to declare this act. . implies no sanction of, nor promise of voluntary obedience to, such of the present laws of marriage as refuse to recognize the wife as an independent, rational being, while they confer upon the husband an injurious and unnatural superiority, investing him with legal powers which no honorable man would exercise, and which no man should possess. Miriam Gurko
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Henry read the protest which he and Lucy had prepared: “While acknowledging our mutual affection by publicly assuming the relation of husband and wife, yet in justice to ourselves and a great principle, we deem it a duty to declare this act … implies no sanction of, nor promise of voluntary obedience to, such of the present laws of marriage as refuse to recognize the wife as an independent, rational being, while they confer upon the husband an injurious and unnatural superiority, investing him with legal powers which no honorable man would exercise, and which no man should possess.” The couple agreed that they wanted to be married by a minister who was opposed to slavery. They agreed also that they did not wish their union to have any legal authority over them. They simply wanted their personal commitment to be recognized as legally binding. They agreed on a number of specific issues regarding their relationship with each other. But the most important agreement they made was that each one would respect the opinion and rights of the other.

Source: The Ladies Of Seneca Falls: The Birth Of The Womens Rights Movement

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