Shame, as an emotion, has a core meaning, in relating individuals to wider social groups and norms -- real or imagined.

Peter N. Stearns
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The core meaning of shame is connected to a feeling of being judged by others. The judgment of others can be a source of shame, as well as a source of pride. Thus a person who is ashamed, or who feels shamed, is one who feels judged by others.

Source: Shame: A Brief History

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