17 Quotes & Sayings By Warren Farrell

Warren Farrell is the author of the international bestseller, The Myth of Male Power, which has become a classic in its field. He is the author of thirty-two books including Why Men Are the Way They Are, The New Man, The Boy Crisis, and Why Men Are the Way They Are (Revised and Updated). He is also the founder of the Domestic Violence; Take Back the Night; Fathers' Rights; and Men's Studies movements.

When women hold off from marrying men, we call it...
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When women hold off from marrying men, we call it independence. When men hold off from marrying women, we call it fear of commitment. Warren Farrell
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It is in the interests of both sexes to hear the other sex's experience of powerlessness. Warren Farrell
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I am a men's liberationist (or "masculist") when men's liberation is defined as equal opportunity and equal responsibility for both sexes. I am a feminist when feminism favors equal opportunities and responsibilities for both sexes. I oppose both movements when either says our sex is THE oppressed sex, therefore, "we deserve rights." That's not gender liberation but gender entitlement. Ultimately, I am in favor of neither a women's movement nor a men's movement but a gender transition movement. . Warren Farrell
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Men’s greatest weakness is their facade of strength, and women’s greatest strength is their facade of weakness. Warren Farrell
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When a man is able to connect with his feelings, he is able to care more. Warren Farrell
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Boys with a 'failure to launch' are invisible to most girls. With poor social skills, the boys feel anger at their fear of being rejected and self-loathing at their inability to compete. Warren Farrell
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I don't think there's anything that is a greater area of discrimination against women today than the fact that nowhere in the world is there a female role model in team sports that more than half of a general audience would recognize. Warren Farrell
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Men's competitive team sports focus on the balance between individual achievement and team achievement with the emphasis on team achievement. Warren Farrell
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Nobody really believes in equality anyway. Warren Farrell
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Women and men look at their life, and women say, 'What do I need? Do I need more money, or do I need more time?' And women are intelligent enough to say, 'I need more time.' And so, women lead balanced lives; men should be learning from women. Warren Farrell
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All women's issues are to some degree men's issues and all men's issues are to some degree women's issues because when either sex wins unilaterally both sexes lose. Warren Farrell
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If women had to promise to provide for a man for a lifetime before he removed his veil and showed her his smile, would we think of this as a system of female privilege? Warren Farrell
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Men are fair, and they have learned not to personalize anger - they can disagree with you and argue to the bone, but afterward they still consider you a nice person with whom the underlying human relationship need not be altered. Warren Farrell
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For blacks in our society, victimization may be a true issue. But it isn't a true issue for women. Neither men nor women are victimized. The true issue, that I try to point out, is that both sexes suffer restricted roles. Warren Farrell
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In our society, the sound of men complaining is like nails on a chalkboard. Warren Farrell
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The Myth of Male Power dealt much more with the political issues, the legal issues, sexual harassment, date rape, women who kill, and those issues were very much more interfaced with the agendas of feminism. Warren Farrell