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There's a difference between waiting with patient expectation, and waiting because you never know what God will do. If you don't know how God thinks or what God wants to do in your life, read the Bible. When you know what God wants you to do, go out there and do it and see God work his wonderful mission through you. The whole time you thought you were waiting on God, but the whole time God was WAITING ON YOU. .Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Quitting is not giving up, it's choosing to focus your attention on something more important. Quitting is not losing confidence, it's realizing that there are more valuable ways you can spend your time. Quitting is not making excuses, it's learning to be more productive, efficient and effective instead. Quitting is letting go of things (or people) that are sucking the life out of you so you can do more things that will bring you strength. .Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Whatever it is you are really desiring, give it away. If it's companionship, give it to someone else, and just listen to them and be there. If it's money, give it to someone who is less fortunate. If it's encouragement, give it to others. If it's friendship, become the best friend you can be to others. If it's time, serve others with your time. You will be amazed to see how much more of everything you have when you are willing to freely give. .Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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But if as you read this book you're saying to yourself: "I'd rather be miserably married than be alone." Well young lady, take out your clown shoes and buckle your seat belt - it's going to be a very bumpy one-woman circus.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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The way our minds work is that one positive thing and one negative thing does not equal each other. Instead, one negative thing can drastically bring down 2 or 3 positive things.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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It doesn't matter to me that my leaving will cost you money. It doesn't matter that my space will take time to fill. What matters is that I'm happy and if you're not willing to invest in me, then I'm willing to cost you money.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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There are days when you will wonder if it is even possible to make money doing what you do, or whether you are just barking up the wrong tree... There will be days when you think that if you don't show up for the next few days nobody will miss you and nobody will care... Don't believe it...it's not true... If your gift and your passion wasn't needed you wouldn't have them...Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Hold on to the thought that no emotion lasts forever, no matter how wonderful or how terrible the emotion may be. The tears may last a little longer than you would like, but it will get better. I promise.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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And don't tell me debt is not a big deal. Debt will cut off your legs and laugh at you as you grovel in the dirt begging for mercy. If you don't need it, don't get it. If you can't afford it, don't get it. If you're already in debt, get out quickly. If you think you'll never get out, you're right, you won't.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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You won't become a billionaire if you're always afraid. You may become a thousandier or even a hundred thousandier but you won't enjoy the money anyway.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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In the end it's up to you - it's about what you see, it's about what you are looking for. If you're expecting Chaos, then you will see chaos, if you're expecting to make money then you will find ways to make money. But you need to be clear about your thoughts.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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We have to remember that making money is essentially exchanging one form of energy for another form of energy - we are exchanging our ideas, our creativity, our passions, for money...we are asking people to take money out of their bank accounts and put into ours because our ideas and our creativity is more valuable to them than their money.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Don't let bad thoughts deceive you into thinking that you have to feel bad. Be aware and conscious of it and choose to think good thoughts whenever you are bombarded with the bad. Remember to live your life passionately!Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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If I can't trust your word, I can't trust you.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Sometimes you have to deprive someone of the pleasure of being with you so that they can realize how much they need you in their lives...Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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When you go through a breakup, it feels likesomeone died. And the truth is that someone has died — the relationship.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Don’t play with damaged goods, you will only hurt yourself.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Often times you may find yourself in a relationship with a guy who looks like he is a mature adult, but then you find out that he’s just a selfish baby underneath that wonderful expensive cologne.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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If he’s hitting you now, stop contemplating leaving him, and just leave.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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You may eventually decide to breakup, and that’s fine, because headaches are not cute, but at least you know you tried.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Some of the most beautiful and rewarding relationships come from mutual respect that eventually burned into fervent passion. Don’t take for granted the friendship you are building at the moment, just appreciate it and cherish it for what it is.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Only boring people are bored in relationships.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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You think embracing the longing while waiting for the right man is impossible? Well obviously you didn't get the memo.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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The truth is women need men, we are neither superior nor inferior to men. We are better at some things and worse at other things. Mature people take the hard road and choose to delay quick gratification for true love. Mature people realize that the world does not revolve around them, and their desires, but around commitment. Mature people are committed to something beyond themselves; God, good, the good of society, family etc. If men are the source of your problems, then you are doomed to wait for eternity for them to fix it.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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A few will say no, but many will say yes…remember that every No will get you closer to the many yeses as long as you have a system that works for you.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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And finally have fun with it. If you’re not having fun, your speakers won’t have fun, and your participants won’t have fun. No matter what happens, remember that marketing should be fun, and life should be enjoyed.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Speakers are very busy people, with their own lives. Once you remember that sentence then it’s easy to know how to treat them and attract them.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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People often ask if I pay my speakers to speak. No I don’t. If you are able to explain the benefits of the virtual summit to the speaker (which we address in chapter 5) then it will be easy for you to get the caliber of speakers you want.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Why do all this? Because there are people out there who need you, and they will be more than willing to give you what you need so you can give them your best, but if you're busy pursuing everyone, or if you're so drained at the end of the day, you won't be able to be your best and give your best.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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There will be times when it seems that it would be best to just call him and see how he’s doing. Don’t deceive yourself, you don’t care about how he’s doing, you’re just craving him, don’t do it. You’ll only hurt yourself.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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As time goes by, westart to see more clearly, and are able to see thatit wasn’t all bad, and thatperhaps just perhapsthe breakup was a gift.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Let us crush these so-called biological clocks that give us nothing but fear, and encourage us to make stupid decisions. Let us crush these biological clocks that hurt us and rob us of the fabulous lives that Jesus died to give us. These clocks that not only hurt us, but hurt many generations after us. It is time. We need you.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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You get to choose your decision, but you don't get to choose the consequences.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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We spend a lot of time trying to get more and more things, not realizing that those things can never fulfill us. Learn from those who have gone before you - stuff can never satisfy your desires, so focus on THE ONE who can.Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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Don't think you can watch all the romantic movies, soap operas, TV shows and read all the romantic books out there and not be affected. Ninety-nine percent of the romantic stuff out there is garbage... and what you put in always comes out... UGLIER!Osayi Emokpae Lasisi
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When was the last time you had a good belly-shaking-tear-jerking-snot-producing laugh? That long?Osayi Emokpae Lasisi