25 Quotes & Sayings By Lauren Klarfeld

Lauren Klarfeld is a writer and editor who has worked with a variety of clients from Fortune 500 companies to nonprofits. She is the author of "The 5 Love Languages" and "Language of Romance." Lauren's work has been featured in Quill Magazine, The New York Times, Redbook, and other media outlets. She lives in New York City.

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A girl who travels will need someone that questions her, not too little, and not too much. She’ll need someone to read her, but also really listen to her. Because she’ll want to do the same. She’ll want a person that shares an interest but at the same time stays genuine to who they are. Not drown in a puddle of narcissism. And not drown in a lake of fascination. Lauren Klarfeld
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If we love someone deeply, be they friends, family or lovers, don’t treat the relationship like a playground game of back and forth or tit for tat. See it as a loving connection and let that be the basis of it all. Lauren Klarfeld
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The old you has been left behind to leave place for the new you. And it will be a new you that your new friends will admire, that your old friends will struggle to understand and that your true friends will learn to embrace. Lauren Klarfeld
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As change is a constant — as our houses, our money, our friends, our things and even our lovers can always disappear - the one thing that we will always remain the closest to, will be our minds and our bodies. Lauren Klarfeld
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Few people will understand that to love is like being able to select and read a good book. They don’t just stop at the title or the cover. They stop because...they wanted to read the content. The wanted to read each word, each sentence, each line, but most of all, what was in between the lines... Lauren Klarfeld
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When you know that writing your own book of life is so difficult to begin with, the least you can do for someone else, is to try to read the pages of a person rather than skip through the chapters. Lauren Klarfeld
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A man or woman who travels in the end will never be kept. But if you understand that person well enough, they’ll always be by your side. They might have forgotten where their home is in this world - but you might just make them feel like the closest thing to feeling at home. And while they’ll be leaving country after country, this is the way you will never leave their heart. Lauren Klarfeld
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If you cannot afford yourself any luxuries for the time being, at least offer yourself the one priceless luxury no one can take away from you — your time Lauren Klarfeld
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As any distance we take from things give us an outside perspective, so does taking a geographical distance–offering us a new vantage point over our lives. Lauren Klarfeld
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A girl who travels knows that deep down she is escaping reality. So she’ll want someone to give her hope and land back to the idea that reality isn’t as bad as it seems in the end. And if she tells you she loves you - it is exactly because you give her that hope Lauren Klarfeld
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A fight is like the perfect storm. It is risky and dangerous. But, as the African proverb goes, Smooth seas do not make skillful sailors. Fights are often learning opportunities–if we’re willing to dig deep enough past our own egos. Lauren Klarfeld
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Some may decide to build homes somewhere new, and others have homes that await them. Like a break in a relationship, we simply needed some time apart to be better for the future. Lauren Klarfeld
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A mind wanders, thoughts flee and memories fade. But tattoos, tattoos are forever. And if it is true to say that we carry ourselves with when we travel - then the body may very well be a beautiful canvas for the timeless lessons we learn and will learn when we travel. Lauren Klarfeld
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A girl who travels has relationships that are based not on security, but on sincerity Lauren Klarfeld
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When coming back, we may notice we have changed because others haven’t. Lauren Klarfeld
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A girl who travels has learned how to dance barefoot. She’s learned to place her toes in the sand and dance through rhythm, not through rehearsed footwork. She’s learned to follow what she likes, not what she needs to like. Lauren Klarfeld
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While the people of Madrid seem to have resigned to selling almost anything - the one thing they have never given up on so far - is time. It is the one commodity that is never sold and always shared. Lauren Klarfeld
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Date a girl who travels they said, but please, know that you will never tame her nor keep her. Because she’ll never sign her letters off with a “your truly” - but always with a “see you when I see you Lauren Klarfeld
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If you’ve gone to travel to have fun, you will most likely have no new choices to make. But if you have gone travelling to grow, then you are bound to have to make that choice–that of making a new home and welcoming people in it regardless of how different they are from you. Lauren Klarfeld
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Sometimes we are so lonely that we are more ready to fall in love with the concept of a person than the person in itself. Some people are thirsty for life, while others are hungry for love - and a girl who travels will know that there have been people who have fallen in love with her for the wrong reasons Lauren Klarfeld
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If we are with someone out of choice, we should act accordingly, and choose to communicate rather than deteriorate. Lauren Klarfeld
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As we travel great lengths in this world away from home, most of us come back with a clearer view on what home means. And most likely it isn't so much about the place in itself, but more about the places and people that have made us feel AT home… Lauren Klarfeld
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Don’t just love a person for the image, idea or concept of them, but love them for every fantastically weird and twisted details that makes them up. Lauren Klarfeld
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As our body journeys through life, and life journeys on our body….life will leave marks on us too. From the creases of our wrinkles to the birthmarks on our bodies to the tattoos we decide to place. Lauren Klarfeld