56 Quotes & Sayings By La Rochefoucauld

La Rochefoucauld was born in 1613, the son of François de La Rochefoucauld, duc de La Rochefoucauld. His father was a Duke's son and a lieutenant in the King's Musketeers. He entered into his father's profession of arms, which he left at the age of sixteen. He married the daughter of a lieutenant in the same regiment Read more

After having lived for four years alone in Provence, he came to Paris, where he was imprisoned for debt. He was released by the disgrace of his wife's suicide and began to write verses and comedies for his own amusement; but his friends soon found out that he had wit and talent, through which he quickly rose to greater distinction than he had before enjoyed. His first play was presented at Court; then followed "Les Fâcheux" (1649), "Les Plaideurs" (1650) and several others. The success of "Les Fâcheux" brought him to the attention of King Louis XIV, who made him an intendant (secretary). While employed in this capacity at Versailles, he wrote "Les Caractères" (1673), "L'École des Femmes" (1674) and several other epistles on morals, which did much to popularize the new philosophy known as stoicism. In 1677 he resigned his office and retired to his country estate at La Devinière-sur-Mer, where he died in 1694.

From this period dates his reputation as a moralist. In spite of all its value as a work of intellectual research, "Les Caractères" is best known as an exposition of simple maxims which are constantly referred to or quoted by writers on morals from Hugo to Thackeray. His reputation as a writer rests chiefly on "Les Rêveries du promeneur solitaire," a collection of dialogues with himself on various topics drawn from his observations during walks along country roads near Paris while recovering from a long illness while living in retirement on his estate at La Devinière-sur-Mer after being dismissed from office by Louis XIV while still largely incapacitated by illness from undertaking any official duties.

In these dialogues La Rochefoucauld expresses opinions that were held by many philosophers and writers of that time that have been widely cited by later thinkers including Michel de Montaigne

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We promise according to our hopes and perform according to our fears. La Rochefoucauld
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Absence diminishes little passions and increases great ones just as the wind blows out a candle and fans a fire. La Rochefoucauld
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We always love those who admire us and we do not always love those whom we admire. La Rochefoucauld
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Old men are fond of giving good advice to console themselves for being no longer in a position to give bad examples. La Rochefoucauld
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We give advice but we do not inspire conduct. La Rochefoucauld
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Few people know how to be old. La Rochefoucauld
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Quarrels would not last long if the fault was only on one side. La Rochefoucauld
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How is it that we remember the least triviality that happens to us and yet not remember how often we have recounted it to the same person? La Rochefoucauld
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We often forgive those who bore us but can't forgive those whom we bore. La Rochefoucauld
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True bravery is shown by performing without witness what one might be capable of doing before all the world. La Rochefoucauld
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Moderation is an ostentatious proof of our strength of character. La Rochefoucauld
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The confidence which we have in ourselves gives birth to much of that which we have in others. La Rochefoucauld
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Conceit causes more conversation than wit. La Rochefoucauld
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He who imagines he can do without the world deceives himself much but he who fancies the world cannot do without him is still more mistaken. La Rochefoucauld
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The reason why lovers are never wary of one another is this - they are always talking of themselves. La Rochefoucauld
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True eloquence consists in saying all that is necessary and nothing but what is necessary. La Rochefoucauld
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A fashionable woman is always in love - with herself. La Rochefoucauld
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He who lives without committing any folly is not so wise as he thinks. La Rochefoucauld
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He who lives without folly is not as wise as he thinks. La Rochefoucauld
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It is not enough to succeed a friend must fail. La Rochefoucauld
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Before we set our hearts too much upon anything let us examine how happy they are who already possess it. La Rochefoucauld
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No man deserves to be praised for his goodness unless he has the strength of character to be wicked. All other goodness is generally nothing but indolence or impotence of will. La Rochefoucauld
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Generosity is the vanity of giving. La Rochefoucauld
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The gratitude of most men is but a secret desire of receiving greater benefits. La Rochefoucauld
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It is the prerogative of great men only to have great defects. La Rochefoucauld
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We are never so happy nor so unhappy as we imagine. La Rochefoucauld
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We are never so happy nor so unhappy as we suppose ourselves to be. La Rochefoucauld
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The head is always the dupe of the heart. La Rochefoucauld
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Hope deceitful as it is serves at least to lead us to the end of life along an agreeable road. La Rochefoucauld
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Hypocrisy is the homage which vice pays to virtue. La Rochefoucauld
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Hypocrisy is the homage which vice renders to virtue. La Rochefoucauld
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Of all our faults the one that we excuse most easily is idleness. La Rochefoucauld
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We are lazier in our minds than in our bodies. La Rochefoucauld
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Innocence finds not near so much protection as guilt. La Rochefoucauld
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In jealousy there is more self-love than love. La Rochefoucauld
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If I advance follow me! If I retreat kill me! If I die avenge me! La Rochefoucauld
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Before strongly desiring anything we should look carefully into the happiness of its present owner. La Rochefoucauld
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If we are to judge of love by its consequences it more nearly resembles hatred than friendship. La Rochefoucauld
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The reason why lovers and their mistresses never tire of being together is that they are always talking of themselves. La Rochefoucauld
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It is easier to know mankind in general than man individually. La Rochefoucauld
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Everyone complains of his lack of memory but nobody of his want of judgement. La Rochefoucauld
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We have all of us sufficient fortitude to bear the misfortunes of others. La Rochefoucauld
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If we resist our passions it is more due to their weakness than to our strength. La Rochefoucauld
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Weak people cannot be sincere. La Rochefoucauld
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A refusal of praise is a desire to be praised twice. La Rochefoucauld
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Self-love is the greatest of all flatterers. La Rochefoucauld
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Affected simplicity is refined imposture. La Rochefoucauld
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Our minds are lazier than our bodies. La Rochefoucauld
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When our vices leave us we flatter ourselves with the credit of having left them. La Rochefoucauld
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There are few chaste women who are not tired of their trade. La Rochefoucauld
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Our virtues are most frequently but vices disguised. La Rochefoucauld
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We are oftener treacherous through weakness than through calculation. La Rochefoucauld
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What is perfectly true is perfectly witty. La Rochefoucauld
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One can find women who have never had a love affair but it is rare indeed to find any who have had only one. La Rochefoucauld
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True eloquence consists of saying all that should be not all that could be said. La Rochefoucauld