83 Quotes & Sayings By John Connolly

John Connolly is the author of eight novels, including The Book of Lost Things, which was a finalist for the Man Booker Prize in 2008. His latest novel, The Blackhouse, was published in September 2013. His other novels are The Book of Lost Things, The Book of Lost Things: The Graphic Novel, The Lighthouse, A Secret Country, A Shiver in Time, The Twinkling of an Eye and Darker Angels. He has also written three nonfiction books: A Suitable Job for a Woman, An Irish Wake and A Fairly Honourable Death Read more

He is also the author of seven collections of short stories. Born in Dublin in 1953 to an Irish mother and American father, John Connolly emigrated to the United States when he was eight years old. He grew up in New Jersey and Illinois before settling in Illinois where he lives with his wife, son and two miniature horses.

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I think the act of reading imbues the reader with a sensitivity toward the outside world that people who don't read can sometimes lack. I know it seems like a contradiction in terms; after all reading is such a solitary, internalizing act that it appears to represent a disengagement from day-to-day life. But reading, and particularly the reading of fiction, encourages us to view the world in new and challenging ways.. It allows us to inhabit the consciousness of another which is a precursor to empathy, and empathy is, for me, one of the marks of a decent human being. . John Connolly
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What do you believe in?’ asked David.‘I believe in those whom I love and trust. All else is foolishness. This god is as empty as his church. His followers choose to attribute all of their good fortune to him, but when he ignores their pleas or leaves them to suffer, they say only that he is beyond their understanding and abandon themselves to his will. What kind of god is that? John Connolly
When did you get so clever?
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When did you get so clever?"" When I realized I wasn't as clever as I thought. John Connolly
There's a difference between living and just surviving. Do something...
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There's a difference between living and just surviving. Do something you love, and find someone to love who loves that you love what you do. It is really that simple. And that hard. John Connolly
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I believe in those whom I love and trust. All else is foolishness. This god is as empty as his church. His followers choose to attribute all of their good fortune to him, but when he ignores their pleas or leaves them to suffer, they say only that he ignores their pleas or leaves them to suffer, they say only that he is beyond their understanding and abandon themselves to his will. What kind of god is that? . John Connolly
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Before she came ill, David's mother would often tell him that stories were alive. They weren't alive in the way that people were alive, or even dogs or cats. (..) Stories were different, though: they came alive in the telling. Without a human voice to read them aloud, or a pair of wide eyes following them by torch light beneath a blanket, they had no real existence in our world. (..) They lay dormant, hoping for the chance to emerge. Once someone started to read them, they could begin to change. They could take root in the imagination and transform the reader. Stories wanted to be read, David's mother would whisper. They needed it. It was the reason they forced themselves from their world into ours. They wanted us to give them life. John Connolly
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These stories were very old, as old as people, and they had survived because they were very powerful indeed. They were the tales that echoed in the head long after the books that contained them were cast aside. They were both an escape from reality and an alternative reality themselves. They were so old, and so strange, that they had found a kind of existence independent of the pages they occupied. The world of the old tales existed parallel to ours, but sometimes the walls separating the two became so thing and brittle that the two worlds started to blend into each other. That was when the trouble started. That was when the bad things came. That was when the Crooked Man began to appear to David. John Connolly
He became merely the broken statue of a beast, now...
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He became merely the broken statue of a beast, now without another's fear to animate it. John Connolly
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I dream dark dreams. I dream of a figure moving through the forest, of children flying from his path, of young women crying at his coming. I dream of snow and ice, of bare branches and moon-cast shadows. I dream of dancers floating in the air, stepping lightly even in death, and my own pain is but a faint echo of their suffering as I run. My blood is black on the snow, and the edges of the world are silvered with moonlight. I run into the darkness, and he is waiting. I dream in black and white, and I dream of him. I dream of Caleb, who does not exist, and I am afraid. John Connolly
The biggest life change any man would ever experience was...
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The biggest life change any man would ever experience was the ending of it. John Connolly
After all, evil was a kind of poison, an infection...
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After all, evil was a kind of poison, an infection of the soul. John Connolly
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There are some truths so terrible that they should not be spoken aloud, so appalling that even to acknowledge them is to risk sacrificing a crucial part of one's humanity, to exist in a colder, crueler world than before. John Connolly
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If it is true that nature abhors a vacuum, then criminality regards it as a business opportunity. John Connolly
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When one encounters enough strangeness, then what is strange ultimately becomes familiar. The mind can accommodate itself to almost anything, given time: pain, grief, loss, even the possibility that the dead talk to the living. John Connolly
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Once upon a time — for that is how all stories should begin — there was a boy who lost his mother. John Connolly
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We are not meant to know the time or the nature of our deaths (for all of us secretly hope that we may be immortal). John Connolly
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The Detective was different. Not that he wasn't a good man; Willie had heard enough about him to understand that he was the kind who didn't like to turn away from another's pain, the kind who couldn't put a pillow over his ears to drown out the cries of strangers. Those scars he had were badges of courage, and Willie knew that there were others hidden beneath his clothes, and still more deep inside, right beneath the skin and down to the soul. No, it was just that whatever goodness was there coexisted with rage and grief and loss. . John Connolly
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As for dying, he didn't believe that he was frightened of it: the manner of it, perhaps, but not the fact of it. After all, he had reached an age where dying had started to become an objective reality instead of an abstract concept. John Connolly
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It is a curious fact that small boys are more terrified of their babysitters than small girls are. In part, this is because small girls and babysitters, who are usually slightly larger girls, belong to the same species, and therefore understand each other. Small boys, on the other hand, do not understand girls, and therefore being looked after by one is a little like a hamster being looked after by a shark. If you are a small boy, it may be some consolation to you to know that even large boys do not understand girls, and girls, by and large, do not understand boys. This makes adult life very interesting. John Connolly
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Real life was curious enough without the embellishments of fiction. John Connolly
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Was that his name? I never had a chance to ask. He was too intent upon tearing out my throat for us to engage in idle chitchat. John Connolly
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It is one thing to be brave in front of others, perhaps for fear of being branded a coward and becoming diminished in their eyes, but another entirely to be brave when there is nobody to witness your courage. The latter is an elemental bravery, a strength of spirit and character. John Connolly
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And I told him that I believed in God because I had seen His opposite. I had seen all that He was not, and been touched by it, and so I could no more deny the possibility of an ultimate goodness to set against such depravity than I could deny that daylight followed darkness, and night the day. John Connolly
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After all, no relationship could function or survive under the burden of total honesty. John Connolly
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It didn't help when he told David that his mother would always be with him, even if he couldn't see her. An unseen mother couldn't go for long walks with you on summer evenings, drawing the names of trees and flowers from her seemingly infinite knowledge of nature; or help you with your homework, the familiar scent of her in your nostrils as she leaned in to correct a misspelling or puzzle over the meaning of an unfamiliar poem; or read with you on cold Sunday afternoons when the fire. John Connolly
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Being shot at for years by men of a particular nationality will tend to impact negatively upon one’s view of them. John Connolly
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The nature of compassion isn't coming to terms with your own suffering and applying it to others: It's knowing that other folks around you suffer and, no matter what happens to you, no matter how lucky or unlucky you are, they keep suffering. And if you can do something about that, then you do it, and you do it without whining or waving your own fuckin' cross for the world to see. You do it because it's the right thing to do. John Connolly
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The nature of humanity, its essence, is to feel another's pain as one's own, and to act to take that pain away, . There is a nobility in compassion, a beauty in empathy, a grace in forgiveness. John Connolly
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Unless you know the code, it has no meaning. John Connolly
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You have to understand that only the very worst end up here: the ones whose anger made them kill, and who felt no sorrow or guilt after the act; those so obsessed with themselves that they turned their backs on the sufferings of others, and left them in pain; those whose greed meant that others starved and died. Such souls belong here, because they would find no peace elsewhere. In this place, they are understood. In this place, their faults have meaning. In this place, they belong. John Connolly
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Because to ignore what had happened in the recent and distant pasts, to turn away and look elsewhere because it was easier to do so, was to be an accomplice to the crimes that were committed. To refuse to delve deeper would be to collude with the offenders. John Connolly
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Regrets, Blacksmith, make poor currency. You can't but back with them what you most desire. John Connolly
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We lie to protect our children, and in lying we expose them to the greatest of harms John Connolly
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David could tell, by looking at her face as she read, whether or not the story contained in the book was living inside her, and she in it, and he would recall again all that she had told him about stories and tales and the power that they wield over us, and that we in turn wield over them. John Connolly
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Samuel understood at last why this being hated men and women so much: he hated them because they were so like himself, because the worst of the was mirrored in them. He was the source of all that was bad in men and women, but he had none of the greatness, and none of the grace, of which human beings were capable, so that by only by corrupting them was his own pain diminished, and thus his existence made more tolerable. John Connolly
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No matter how hard Evil tries, it can never quite match up to the power of Good, because Evil is ultimately self-destructive. Evil may set out to corrupt others, but in the process corrupts itself. John Connolly
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You cannot perform acts of evil in the name of a greater good, because the good suffers. It is corrupted by what has been done in its name. John Connolly
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It has always seemed to me that there are two types of people in this world: those rendered impotent by the sheer weight of evil it contains, and who refuse to act because they see no point, and those who choose their battles and fight them to the end, as they understand that to do nothing is definitely worse than to do something and fail. --The Collector John Connolly
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No matter how hard Evil tries, it can never quite match up to the power of Good, because Evil is ultimately self-destructive. Evil may set out to corrupt others, but in the process corrupts itself. That's just the way Evil is. All things considered, it's better to be on the side of Good, even if Evil occasionally has nicer uniforms. John Connolly
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If there is anything worse than evil, it is nothingness. At least evil has a form, and a voice, and a purpose, however depraved. Perhaps some good can even come out of evil: a terrible deed of violence against someone weaker may lead others to act in order to ensure that such a deed is not perpetrated again, whereas before they might have been unaware of the reasons why an individual might behave in such a way, or they might simply have chosen to ignore them. And evil, as we saw with the Blacksmith, always contains within itself the possibility of its own redemption. It is not evil that is the enemy of hope: it is nothingness. John Connolly
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Evil, unlike good, is constantly at war with those most like itself, and ambition is its spur. John Connolly
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After all this time, he had hope, and then hope was gone, and he hates himself for giving in to hope. He, who exists only to kill the hopes of others, could not destroy the hope within himself. John Connolly
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Wickedness never rests easily so, in a way, one might almost feel pity for the wicked, for they are destined to live their lives in fear, in a prison of the heart. John Connolly
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My feelings for Raphael are mine, and mine alone. I loved him, and that is all anyone needs to know. The rest is no business of any man's. John Connolly
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People who believe in buried gods, ’ said Louis.‘Do you believe in buried gods, Detective Walsh?’‘I’m Episcopalian. I believe in everything. John Connolly
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Know a man by his metaphors. John Connolly
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And, in the darkness, David closed his eyes as all that was lost was found again. John Connolly
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The trick was not to stifle the emotions, but to control them. Love, anger, grief — all were weapons in their way, but they needed to be kept in check. John Connolly
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Law and justice are not the same. John Connolly
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Most of the bad situations I've encountered began with the best of intentions. John Connolly
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‎"Sarge, mr. Nurd here is threatening to turn me to jelly.""really?" said Sarge. "what flavor? John Connolly
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Stories come alive in the telling. Without a human voice to read them aloud, or a pair of wide eyes following them by flashlight beneath a blanket, they had no existence in our world. They were like seeds in the beak of a bird, waiting to fall to earth. Or the notes of a song laid out on a sheet, yearning for an instrument to bring their music into being. They lay dormant, hoping for the chance to emerge. Once someone started to read them, they could begin to change. They could take root in the imagination and transform the reader. Stories wanted to be read. They needed it. It was the reason they forced themselves from their world into ours. They wanted us to give them life. John Connolly
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These were the tales that echoed in the head long after the books that contained them were cast aside. John Connolly
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The stories in books hate the stories contained in newspapers. John Connolly
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Stories come alive in the telling. (…)They lay dormant, hoping for the chance to emerge. Once someone started to read them, they could begin to change. They could take root in the imagination and transform the reader. Stories wanted to be read. John Connolly
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Story! " The dwarf snorted. "You'll be talking about "happily ever after" next. Do we look happy? There's no happily ever after for us. Miserabily ever after, more like. John Connolly
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Perhaps it's true that all men love their fathers, no matter how terrible the things they do to their sons: there is a part of us that remains forever in debt to those responsible for our existence. John Connolly
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For in every adult there dwells the child that was, and in every child there lies the adult that will be. John Connolly
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You pay by the hour, even if the job only takes five minutes. I don’t do fractions. John Connolly
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The law doesn't require truth, only the appearance of it. Most cases simply rest on a version of it that's acceptable to both sides. You want to know the only truth is? Everybody lies.-- Elwin Stark John Connolly
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We must have taken a wrong turn turning somewhere."" Where, Purgatory?" said Dozy. "We're in Hell. John Connolly
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There was a lot to be said for a man’s capacity to be comfortable while alone. John Connolly
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And the Crooked Man heard her dreams, because that was where he wandered. His place was the land of the imagination, the world where stories began. The stories were always looking for a way to be told, to be brought to life through books and reading. That was how they crossed over from their world into ours. But with them came the Crooked Man, prowling between his world and ours, looking for stories of his own to create, hunting for children who dreamed bad dreams, who were jealous and angry and proud. And he made kings and queens of them, cursing them with a kind of power, even if the real power lay always in his hands. And in return they betrayed the objects of their jealousy to him, and he took them into his lair deep beneath the castle.. . John Connolly
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Slow animals always become prey in the end. John Connolly
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A demon obsessed with being human is a demon no longer John Connolly
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Why did you shoot him?"" You weren't around, " I replied, my teeth gritted in pain. "If you'd been here I'd have shot you instead. John Connolly
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They were on the side of the angels, even if the angels weren't entirely sure that this was a good thing. John Connolly
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What's seldom is wonderful. John Connolly
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And Nurd, who had never had a mother and father, and who had never loved or been loved, marvelled at the ways in which feeling so wonderful could also leave one open to so much pain. In a strange way, he envied Samuel even that. He wanted to care about someone so much that it could hurt. John Connolly
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If cats could count, they’d start getting nervous around the time they put paid to their fifth life. John Connolly
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Dogs were generally incompatible with melancholy. John Connolly
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She had not given me the cross to keep the bad men away, as a child might have been expected to do. No, in her mind the bad men could not be kept away. They were coming, and they would have to be faced. John Connolly
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He had quite liked the dwarfs. He often had no idea what they were talking about, but for a group of homicidal, class-obsessed small people, they were really rather good fun. John Connolly
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We all have our routines, " he said softly." But they must have a purpose and provide an outcome that we can see and take some comfort from, or else they have no use at all. Without that, they are like the endless pacings of a caged animal. If they are not madness itself, then they are a prelude to it. John Connolly
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A condensed Shakespeare with all of the dull parts removed, leaving only the great moments of drama: ghosts, and bloodied daggers, and dying kings. John Connolly
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But don't they say that all is fair in love and war? I heard that somewhere.""' They?' Who are 'they?'""I don't know. Just people."" That's what the victorious claim, not the defeated; the powerful, not the powerless. 'All is fair.' 'The end justifies the means.' Is that what you believe? John Connolly
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But he was wounded, and tired, and winter was still upon him. John Connolly
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It’s a full-time job being homeless. It’s a full-time job being poor. John Connolly
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I used to think this was all about good and evil, ” said Rickett, “but it’s not.”“ No?”“ There’s a kind of evil that isn’t even in opposition to good, because good is an irrelevance to it. It’s a foulness that’s right at the heart of existence, born with the stuff of the universe. It’s in the decay to which all things tend. It is, and it always will be, but in dying we leave it behind.”“ And while we’re alive?”“ We set our souls against it, and our saints and angels, too.” He patted Parker on the shoulder. “Especially the destroying ones. John Connolly
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Misery loved company, but damnation needed it. John Connolly
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The only person who needs to know about failure is yourself. John Connolly
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I feel that I'll be buried in Ireland and don't think I'll ever live in the U.S. I'm not comfortable with many aspects of U.S. society - especially the justice system. John Connolly