17 Quotes & Sayings By Eileen Myles

Born in New York City, Eileen Myles is a renowned poet and a fierce feminist. She has been a recipient of many awards and grants, including a National Endowment for the Arts Poetry Fellowship, a Guggenheim Fellowship, and a Poetry Society of America Poetry Award. In 1995 she received the Poets' Prize from the American Academy of Poets, the first woman to receive the honor. In 1997 she was named Poet Laureate of New York by Mayor Rudolph Giuliani, becoming the first woman to serve as Poet Laureate of New York City Read more

She is one of only three women ever to have held that post. Her books include Blue Faith: The Selected Poems of Eileen Myles (Farrar Straus Giroux 1999), The End of Beauty (Holt Paperbacks 2000), The Man I Love: New and Selected Poems (Holt Paperbacks 1999), and I'll Make You a Man: New and Selected Poems (Holt Paperbacks 1999).

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Literature is love. I think it went like this: drawings in the cave, sounds in the cave, songs in the cave, songs about us. Later, stories about us. Part of what we always did was have sex and fight about it and break each other’s hearts. I guess there’s other kinds of love too. Great friendships. Working together. But poetry and novels are lists of our devotions. We love the feel of making the marks as the feelings are rising and falling. Living in literature and love is the best thing there is. You’re always home. Eileen Myles
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Sometimes in utter hopelessness I put my cheek on the table like it was someone. I wanted to wake my brain up and be loved. Eileen Myles
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We're basking in language itself. The silence of my friend. My love. The one beyond words in her silence. She is always eternally before. When she speaks it is shit, a gift, something to do. In our moment, of waiting, pointing, silent gear, what we went out for–that is pointing. Shit is the award. The award is shit. Eileen Myles
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If passion was a substance I would say it is dark brown, and then blood red. It's like wet grass, tons of it soaked in mud. It's warm and it stinks like shit and it's unaccountably and endlessly good. It's thick and it goes on for miles and it isn't so much deep as bottomless and it holds you in its grip, you never drown. And then it goes. That's all you know. Eileen Myles
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The bag I wanted was beyond reason - something to hold my poems, twice as big as the universe and it must be androgynous. Eileen Myles
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What happened was private. I was in it with Rose. She had hurt me grievously and now I was forever attached. I was in it now with all the women in the world. I walked home glad. I will die, I thought with a bounce in my step. I'm whole. Not whole like anyone else, but whole like me. Painful, but simple. It was very simple now. Eileen Myles
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Who doesn't want to be famous? I am famous. I'm dying to be on TV. Eileen Myles
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When somebody's in love with you, they think it's amazing you've written them a poem, and when they don't love you anymore, they hate those poems. They wish those poems would go away. Eileen Myles
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If the poetry world celebrate its female stars at the true level of their productivity and influence, poetry would wind up being a largely female world, and the men would leave. Eileen Myles
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Sunday is a likely day to write a poem. Because poetry is a piece of language flying around: you'll find notebooks, something on your phone. It's about finding them and getting them off that crumpled piece of paper and onto my computer. Eileen Myles
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Poetry always, always, always is a key piece of democracy. Eileen Myles
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As things get worse, poetry gets better because it becomes more necessary. Eileen Myles
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I wasn't afraid of being poor. I didn't want to live in a big house. I'm the perfect size for poetry. I can move around. Eileen Myles
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In Arlington, people would laugh at you if you tried to get people to look at your drawings or listen to your poetry. It was like you thought you were special. Eileen Myles
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Poetry from the bottom up is an act of selection: you kind of feel your way through the crowds of poems. The good ones came forward a long time ago, and the bad ones fell away. Eileen Myles
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Poetry and novels are lists of our devotions. We love the feel of making the marks as the feelings are rising and falling. Eileen Myles