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You got a sad story, ruth, ' mimba said. 'but not sad-sad. you here with me and cato and all us together now. you have a happy-sad story. best you can get in this life is happy-sad. but you always gotta remember your own mama that birthed you. even though you only got a crumb of her story, you still got to say her name out loud. you always honor your dead, else you get trouble from them, sure.Anita Diamant
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Death is no enemy, but the foundation of gratitude, sympathy, and art. Of all life's pleasures, only love owes no debt to death.Anita Diamant
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In the moment before I crossed over, I knew that the priests and magicians of Egypt were fools and charlatans for promising to prolong the beauties of life beyond the world we are give. Death is no enemy, but the foundation of gratitude, sympathy, and art. All of life's pleasures, only love owes no debt to death.Anita Diamant
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Zilpah had little use for men, whom she described as hairy, crude, and half human. Women needed men to make babies and to move heavy objects, but otherwise she didn't understand their purpose, much less appreciate their charms.Anita Diamant
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My world got very small, the way it always does when someone in your family is sick.Anita Diamant
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I am as proud to be called a feminist as I am to be called a Jew, or an American. Feminism is an indivisible part of who I am, and I remain mystified by the stigma that has been attached to the idea that women are human beings. It sounds so obvious and simple to me, so motherhood and apple pie. And yet the idea that women are human beings remains news, a message that requires constant, clear, and artful reinforcement in a world that continues to undermine the confidence and abilities of girls and women. On the day that the intelligence and talents of women are fully honored and employed, the human community and the planet itself will benefit in ways we can only being to imagine.Anita Diamant
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Weeping is terrible for the complexion, ' said Leonie, holding Shayndel close, 'but it is very good for the heart.Anita Diamant
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[The sound of the wind] was just more proof that the workings of the world were random, that beauty, like suffering, was meaningless, that human life was as pointless as waves on sand.Anita Diamant
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Mind your business" had been the motto of her childhood. But now that seemed like a failing in a friend.Anita Diamant
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Making plans is a game. Life chooses for you.Anita Diamant
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I would have stayed forever within the garden of Re-mose's childhood, but time is a mother's enemy.Anita Diamant
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The story it told was unremarkable: a tale of love found and lost- the oldest story in the world. The only story.Anita Diamant
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If you treat every question like you've never heard it before, your students feel like you respect them and everyone learns a lot more. Including the teacher.Anita Diamant
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I could not get my fill of looking. There should be a song for women to sing at this moment or a prayer to recite. But perhaps there is none because there are no words strong enough to name that moment.Anita Diamant
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It’s a good thing babies don’t give you a lot of time to think. You fall in love with them and when you realize how much they love you back, life is very simple.Anita Diamant
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Why had no one told me that my body would become a battlefield, a sacrifice, a test? Why did I not know that birth is the pinnacle where women discover the courage to become mothers? But of course there is no way to tell this or to hear it. Until you are the woman on the bricks, you have no idea how death stands in the corner, ready to play his part. Until you are the woman on the bricks, you do not know the power that rises from other women-even strangers speaking an unknown tongue, invoking the names of unfamiliar goddesses.Anita Diamant
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Fear not, the time is coming Fear not, your bones are strong Fear not, help is nearby Fear not, Gula is near Fear not, the baby is at the door Fear not, he will live to bring you honor Fear not, the hands of the midwife are clever Fear not, the earth is beneath you Fear not, we have water and salt Fear not, little mother Fear not, mother of us allAnita Diamant
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Just as there is no warning for childbirth, there is no preparation for the sight of a first child... There should be a song for women to sing at this moment, or a prayer to recite. But perhaps there is none because there are no words strong enough to name the moment.Anita Diamant
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I don't want to die, Buddy.' She put her head on his chest. 'I know this cancer probably won't kill me. But I think about dying all the time. I dream about it. What do you think? Do I get to see Pat on the other side, or do I just lie there in the dirt forever?'.. Buddy wrapped his arms around her and drew her close. 'I think dead is dead, ' he said softly, near her ear. 'But that's not so bad. I think of it as following. Following the rest of them.. My mother and father. Your sister. Your mom. But not just them. All of them. All of us. People..Maybe it's just a way to feel less lonesome about the whole thing, but I think of dying as a path we all go down separately at first, but eventually, together.Anita Diamant
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I like the way he danced. And then I like the way we danced together.Anita Diamant
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They sang the words in unison, yet somehow created a web of sounds with their voices. It was like hearing a piece of fabric woven with all the colors of a rainbow. I did not know that such beauty could be formed by the human mouth. I had never heard harmony before.Anita Diamant
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The more a daughter knows about the details of her mother's life - without flinching or whining - the stronger the daughter.Anita Diamant
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Mort moved my ending to the beginning, took out all the adjectives, cut the whole thing in half, and made it one hundred percent better.' That's how it's done, ' he said. Best writing lesson I ever had.Anita Diamant
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It was one of those perfect fall days when the air is cool enough to wake you up but the sun is also kissing your face.Anita Diamant
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And yet the idea that women are human beings remains news, a message that requires constant, clear, and artful reinforcement in a world that continues to undermine the confidence and abilities of girls and women. On the day that the intelligence and talents of women are fully honored and employed, the human community and planet itself will benefit in ways we can only begin to imagine.Anita Diamant