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It works...conditioning your mind to see something positive in anything! Anything that happens to you, anything said to you, anything said about you. I have the choice to INTERPRET it in a way that is positive. Surefire way to imbibe Pollyana attitude !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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I am afraid, I cannot and will not 'surrender' to Orthodoxy! ! My life in itself is an 'Epic experiment' of nature and new living! ! And I am living the 'Great Adventure'..this moment.. N O W! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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The lift is about SPEED and COMFORT, but the stairs are about CERTAINTY! The lift may go wrong but stairs seldom do, you can always take the stairs. They are BOUND to take you UP and to the END as long as you continue to climb!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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One should clearly know that " Every thought that one thinks and every action based on that thought, is taking us either closer to our principal purpose or away from it" Watch out then. ...as thoughts become realities!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Done and over with. .. weeding is a must, it's necessary!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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We must teach our children to get 'EXCITED' about life and the World around them, instead of 'painting' their minds with OUR potrayal of 'how' the World is...children learn from 'emulating' their elders, not by being told...which asks US to 'live' that excitement. If we do not live that way then LEARN it and pass it on to our children.. We will be doing them a HUGE FAVOR!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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NEVER make ISSUES out of things especially wth children...the moment they become ISSUES..they are most likely to stay in their heads as issues of their lives ! That is where most adult ISSUES come from.....Abha Maryada Banerjee
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‪#‎STEREOTYPES‬ ‪#‎SOCIETY‬ ‪#‎COMPATIBILITY‬ ‪#‎BREAKTHROUGH‬Stereotypes?? What are they?? WE ARE SOCIETY, WE MAKE SOCIETY..WE ARE NOT MARRIED TO SOCIETY, WE LIVE IN IT!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Life is given to us to be lived... Most of us spend an entire lifetime preparing to live." What is it that you are doing. ..LIVING or PREPARING TO LIVE at some point ! Are you waiting for the IF AND WHEN THAT HAPPENS or Are you living NOW ! A thought that changed my life forever ! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Life is always moving...often without realization...just like in an Aeroplane which feels like we are not moving at all...but we know its flying at few hundred miles an hour, many thousand feet above sea level! ! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Have the courage to walk away from a fantastic deal, if the person on the other side is disprepectful or trying to pull a smart one on you.' Temptation should never rule a deal, the value should, fairplay should and acceptance on either side that the deal is being made for the value being created for both!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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I learnt to test the size of my brain..by trying this simple thought ! Look out for the good things, not the faults. It takes a good deal bigger sized brain to find out what is not wrong with people and things than to fins out what is wrong! ! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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All your THOUGHTS, are either an 'investment' to your well-being or a 'cost' to your well- being! Are your investments growing or the costs are too high.. Think about it !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Comparison kills... There will always be someone ahead of you and someone behind you in life... When you see someone behind you...feel blessed for you are ahead of them... When you see someone ahead of you...feel inspired for your own growth... Compare yourself to YOU of yesterday, if that's what you like to do...so you can become better today !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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When confidence is deemed arrogance.. Happiness and joy deemed showing off self.. Strong words deemed mere big talk and rhetoric.. Small minds..only time will prove and show the truth..Abha Maryada Banerjee
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I refuse to GROW UP............................Grow up to be what the World expects me to be..Abha Maryada Banerjee
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My 'Inner World' can only tap the GOODNESS in the World outside ! From within I see 'beauty', from within I see 'ugliness', from within I see 'divinity', from within I 'enjoy', from within I feel 'sadness' ! It all starts from ME, goes all around and comes back to ME! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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I 'OWN' some part of the evolution... I want to make my SHARE 'relevant' 'meaningful' and 'miraculous'! !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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‪#‎TRUTH‬ ‪#‎BEREAL‬We must be ruthlessly honest with and about Self..Self Assessments are often inflated or deflated or just imaginary..Abha Maryada Banerjee
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When you learn to say 'NO', you activate the faculty of 'CHOICE' in your mind ! Some of the times you are the chosen one..at other times you CHOOSE for yourself..and saying NO is a sign that one has graduated into becoming a wise CHOICEMAKER ......Abha Maryada Banerjee
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We need to pay as much attention to the MEANS, as to the END! This is the biggest principle of SUCCESS..The END is so enticing, that we lose sight of the details altogether.. Success lies in the DETAILS!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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‪#‎PRAISE‬ ‪#‎CRITICISM‬ ‪#‎NEUTRAL‬If you live off people's compliments..you will soon die of their criticism..Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Some things are better 'left' as they are...unresolved but evolving...Abha Maryada Banerjee
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When DEATH stares in our faces.. We can just 'stare' back at it! ' All' falls flat in the deathly moments! No explanations, no reasons, no justifications sound good enough! ! Acceptance alone stands out as the truth!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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If you like tiger cubs, you got to get into the den!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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A MAN WHO SUFFERS BEFORE IT IS NECESSARY, SUFFERS MORE THAN NECESSARY!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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TAKE' nothing for granted.. The 'GIVE' may be expensive!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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No man can escape the shadow of his own character." Let us hope we are casting the right kind of shadow!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Human Dignity has five characteristics : A playful curiosity, a capacity for dreams, a sense of humor to achieve and correct those dreams, a certain flexibility and spontaenity of behavior, a capacity to fight for and save those dreams !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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SILENCE does not always mean 'NEUTRALITY'! Sometimes, it may mean 'consenting' to a wrong, sometimes it may mean 'condoning' a mistake and sometimes it may mean giving space to the wrong doer.... S O M E T I M E S, we need to get up and FIGHT!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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On famous relatives - First I was my mother's daughter..and now.. I am my daughter's mother !Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Success has NO Rules except ONE..It follows NO rules and most RULES are made on the way!Abha Maryada Banerjee
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Most people have no idea why others do what they do.. The whole World from their own little mind decide 'what' it is.. Sad when reasonably intelligible people continue to judge & judge..7.2 billion people under the Sun, how many can one please??? Therefore....Abha Maryada Banerjee